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How Family Mediation Works

Family mediation breaks down into three distinct stages:

Stage One

First and foremost, mediation is confidential.

Initial Assessment, also called Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM). Since The Family Law change in April 2014, it is a requirement for clients to actively consider mediation. Your mediator will meet with you separately to explain the mediation process, what your alternative options are, to answer any questions you may have, and to assess whether mediation is suitable. As part of this assessment you will be asked to sign an Agreement to Mediate document.

Stage Two

Mediation Process, how it starts, your mediator will begin by working with you on identifying the issues you wish to discuss, your hopes and concerns about future outcomes. The number of sessions will vary according to the issues and progress that can be made. Your mediator will give their view on progress at the end of each mediation session and record what has been achieved through a session summary report.

Stage Three

Reaching Agreement, moving forwards, towards the end of mediation, your mediator will draft up a record of areas covered and agreed proposals. This is called a Memorandum of Understanding. If both agree this can be discussed with your solicitor who can provide you with independent advice and guidance. If the matters covered includes Property and Finance then an Open Financial Summary is produced which will set out the details of how you have reached agreement over financial issues. These documents can be used by your solicitor to write a Consent Order that makes agreements reached into a legally binding court order.

What To Expect

If you, and your former partner, decide to go ahead with mediation you will be invited to attend a joint meeting. Mediation sessions generally last up to 90 minutes. Initially your mediator will work with you separately to identify what the issues are, what your hopes are for a mediated outcome and any concerns you may have.

The mediation sessions will only discuss issues that you raise and any decisions you reach will be made by you, helped by your mediator. Your mediator is there to manage the process of helping you reach decisions which are acceptable to you both.

Mediations generally take between 1-6 sessions and depend on the complexity and progress made and whether the issues are to do with children, property and finance or all of these.

If the issues involve property and finance, you will be asked to disclose all of your financial information including all assets, debts, liabilities as well as property valuations, and pensions estimates (called Cash Equivalent Transfer Value - CETV).

Where issues involve making arrangements about your child or children, the courts expect you to place their interests first. Your mediator can help write up child contact and living arrangements which are also called a "parenting plan".

Towards the end of mediation, your mediator will draft documents that set out everything that has been decided, including property, finances and child contact proposals. At this stage, and if you both agree, you can discuss the content with a solicitor or other specialist. Mediation proposals are not legally binding until made into a court order. Your solicitor can assist you with this.


Why Mediation?

Relationship breakdowns are often emotional and distressing times for you and your ex partner, and feeling bewildered and overwhelmed is common. Mediation...

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MIAMs

When you, or your solicitor, makes a referral to London Family Mediation the process starts with a 'Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting' (MIAM). At this meeting...

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What to Expect

If you, and your former partner, decide to go ahead with mediation you will be invited to attend a joint meeting. Mediation sessions generally last up to 90 mins...

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Features

Family Mediation is a cost efficient and effective way of dealing with the consequences of relationship breakdown, and is supported by the Ministry of Justice...

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How it Works?

An initial assessment, also called Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM). Your mediator will meet with you separately to explain...

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Children

Your mediators at London Family Mediation are able to conduct direct work with children. Mediation can help parents make arrangements for their child following...

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Court Forms

This section covers what happens should either of you decide not to go ahead with mediation and you wish to take the matter to court. Should you decide to do so...

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Your Say

"Divorce was the last thing I imagined in my life but when faced with the reality of it all, I felt very alone, confused and deeply hurt, but from the very first time..."

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College of Mediators

Family Mediation Council

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